Is my style too cute for me to be a guy?

Rant below

People always get my gender wrong and unfollow Frigid because of it :0 Am I not allowed to color my lines and use big, round, glossy eyes on a female OC pony? I thought the brony fandom was done with generalizing gender stereotypes because we all watch girly shows together? I guess people think they “have a chance” with girl mods and don’t appreciate that chance being taken away when they misjudged a male mod’s gender.